Friday, January 23, 2009


"Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. Maybe you'll find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding, but theres also the chance that the one person you can count on for a lifetime, the one person who knows you sometimes better than you know yourself is the same person who's been standing beside you all along." - bride wars

i watched bride wars with candice and ly early tonight and i love it. but the whole time it reminded of me and tiffany. it was amazing how little details really relate how we were and what not. we're basically sistahs (from another mistah). we fight like sisters, we act like sisters, we even pretend to be sisters (sometimes twins and some people actually fall for it) i miss how close we use to be but "shit happens." i hate the phase in our lives where we've drifted and doing our own thing. i guess its what we have to do and in the end, it makes our friendship stronger knowing we can get pass everything and anything that comes between us. no matter how many fights we gone/go through, no matter how often we don't talk/not hang out, no matter what. we're still there for each other because i honestly can't imagine my life without her.

"you and me supposed to be together, forever"

i love you tiffany tin anh tho ngo, you're my sunshine in the rain, pooper scooper, bestfrrran, biff-tab and much more (:

Saturday, January 17, 2009

be genuine

i've been contemplating for some time now. i don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't give back the same effort they receive because you know what? i tried. i don't want to be friends with someone who ignores me as they sit there and text while we are suppose to be hanging out. sometimes saying sorry doesn't make everything okay. i feel so ignorant and blind from something i only hoped to be special. i should have listen, but i had to see it for myself what i was getting into. i don't want to become friends with someone who has the audacity to make arrogant comments yet they turn around and talk to me like we're bffs. people walk all over me. i avoid confrontation and drama by simply giving in and stepping out.

it's always been: you win, i lose.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

a love like this

"When you're comfortable with someone you love, the silence is the best. And, that's how me and J. are. When we're in a room together, we don't have to say anything. It's for real."
- britney spears

too bad a love like this had to end.